VanillaLady

ARGUMENTATIVE ESSAY
WEEK ONE (18 JUNE 2013)
TITLE : ARE EARLY MARRIAGES MORE LIKELY TO END IN DIVORCES?
     Early marriage are usually being assumed to end up with divorces. It has been set by the society. What is wrong with early marriages? As in my opinion, it is not wrong to marry in an early stage. But it is also have its own pros and cons when we see it from a different angle.

     Early marriages are usually end up with divorces because of their level of maturity. The couple are not matured enough to make their decission, especially when they think only about themselves, without thinking about their partner. They will start arguming and this can lead to divorce problem when they are not thinking wisely before make their decission. A life without understanding also is a big problem in early marriages. Even we also cannot work with person that is not understand us. Same goes to marriage. If we have no understanding with our partner, we will not be able to stand with our partner anymore. When we get married in an early age, of course we do not have a stable job, especially we get married before we finished our study. This may lead to financial problem in the young family, and this will get worst when we have children. All these problem are some of the reasons why early marriage will always end up with divorce.

     Besides, for certain people, early marriages can be the best option for them. They have their own reason why they get married in a young age. One of the reasons is the marriage has been arranged by their parents and some children think that it is the best for them because it is their parents' choice. many people will think, what about love between the couple. As people said, love can come and can be build before and after marriage. And people also said that love that come after the marriage is more stronger than love that come before the marriage. I agree with this statement. Early marriage also can help the girl to develop her life as when she has a husband, the husband maybe can help her in terms of money for her study, especially when the girl come from a family that have problem with financial. An early marriages also can be last forever when there is a tolerance between the couple. we should always have this value, even in our daily life, so that we can have a better life and happy always with our surrounding. So, when all these are being practise in a relationship, it is not impossible to keep the young couple away from divorce, but can help them to make the relationship more stronger and last till the end of their life.

     In conclusion, I think that early marriages is not always end up with divorces. But, all these are also come from ourselves. when we think it negatively, it will comes out with negative result and the other way round. So, think wisely before making our final decission for a better result in our life.

VanillaLady

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